Blind date: ‘A person on the subsequent desk was watching a horror movie’ | Life and magnificence


Marta on Andrew

What had been you hoping for?
Romance, naturally. Failing that, somebody I may have an attention-grabbing dialog with.

First impressions?
Constructive, enthusiastic, chatty.

What did you speak about?
Postmortems, meals, canines, travelling, images, relationship, politics.

Any awkward moments?
Fairly a couple of – all due to the man on the close by desk, who determined to look at horror film trailers with out headphones on.

Good desk manners?
Completely.

Q&A

Need to be in Blind date?

Present

Blind date is Guardian Weekend journal’s relationship column: each week, two
strangers are paired up for dinner and drinks, after which spill the beans
to us, answering a set of questions. This runs, with {a photograph} we
take of every dater earlier than the date, in Guardian Weekend journal (within the
UK) and on-line at theguardian.com each Saturday. It’s been working since 2009 – you possibly can learn all about how we put it collectively right here.

What questions will I be requested?
We
ask about age, location, occupation, hobbies, pursuits and the kind of
particular person you wish to meet. If you don’t suppose these questions
cowl every part you want to know, inform us what’s in your thoughts.

Can I select who I match with?
No,
it’s a blind date! However we do ask you a bit about your pursuits,
preferences, and many others – the extra you inform us, the higher the match is probably going
to be.

Can I choose the {photograph}?
No, however don’t fret: we’ll select the nicest ones.

What private particulars will seem?
Your first identify, job and age.

How ought to I reply?
Actually
however respectfully. Be conscious of the way it will learn to your date, and that
Blind date reaches a big viewers, in print and on-line.

Will I see the opposite particular person’s solutions?
No. We could edit yours and theirs for a variety of causes, together with size, and we could ask you for extra particulars.

Will you discover me The One?
We’ll attempt! Marriage! Infants!

Can I do it in my house city?
Provided that it’s within the UK. A lot of our candidates reside in London, however we might love to listen to from individuals residing elsewhere.

Learn how to apply
Electronic mail blind.date@theguardian.com

Thanks on your suggestions.

Neatest thing about Andrew?
He’s very enthusiastic and straightforward to speak to.

Would you introduce him to your mates?
Certain, I don’t see why not.

Describe Andrew in three phrases?
Chatty, inquisitive, participating.

What do you suppose he made from you?
Hopefully simple to speak to – and courageous (I studied forensics and criminology at college). I didn’t have any romantic emotions for him, and in direction of the top of the date, I received the vibe that he didn’t suppose we had been notably suitable, both.

Did you go on someplace?
No.

And … did you kiss?
No.

Should you may change one factor concerning the night what would it not be?

We’d have been extra suitable: we didn’t have an enormous quantity in widespread, and didn’t get a lot past small speak, which I’m not a fan of.

Marks out of 10?
8 – Andrew is a beautiful man and good firm. Nonetheless, there was no romantic spark.

Would you meet once more?
Sure, if we bumped into one another, however simply as buddies.

ANDREW

Andrew on Marta

What had been you hoping for?
My pal Sheyda to be vindicated in suggesting I did this.

First impressions?
She was attempting to stop both of us stepping on damaged glass when the photographer’s mild fell at our ft.

What did you speak about?
Polish blood sausage, a postmortem Marta attended as a scholar, and the way costly it will be to feed her canine Charlie contemporary entrails daily.

Any awkward moments?
A person on the subsequent desk was watching a horror movie loudly on his laptop computer. The fixed screams had been a tad awkward.

Good desk manners?
Flawless! Marta even used a knife and fork to dissect her prawn bao.

Neatest thing about Marta?
Her no-nonsense lifestyle.

Would you introduce her to your mates?
Certain, my buddies are the most effective factor about me.

Fast Information

Saturday journal

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This text comes from Saturday, the brand new print journal from the Guardian which mixes the most effective options, tradition, way of life and journey writing in a single lovely package deal. Out there now within the UK and ROI.

Thanks on your suggestions.

Describe Marta in three phrases
Fearless, forensic, unflappable.

What do you suppose she made from you?
I dread to suppose. Too timid to ask a fellow diner to show his quantity down?

Did you go on someplace?
We walked to the tube, thanked one another and stated goodnight.

And … did you kiss?
No.

Should you may change one factor concerning the night, what would it not be?
I’d have introduced a pair of headphones for the horror movie man.

Marks out of 10?
7.

Would you meet once more?
You by no means know, perhaps we’ll stumble upon one another at a Thai cookery course.

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